the lipstick lesbian flag is not transphobic - it simply is a flag for a feminine lesbian. Of course, the person gets to choose if they use the flag or not, but those who use the flag are not transphobic, nor does this flag have transphobic intent.
Although, I do agree it should be changed, since it is, technically speaking, the wrong flag.
Although, I do agree it should be changed, since it is, technically speaking, the wrong flag.