Life in a Rural Village in Nepal

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Arriving at the Village

It was pouring rain as I stepped off of the bus onto the muddy Prithwi highway, which snakes through the winding hills and mountains of central Nepal. I crossed the road to the base of a steep hill, where I was met by the relatives of a good friend back in Canada, whom had offered me a place to stay when they learned of my travels to the country. We hiked up a treacherous rocky path along the side of the hill, and up towards their family property. Upon arrival, I received a warm welcoming and was treated to a cup of hot, milky tea (known as 'chiya' in the Nepali language). They had a large, external family residing on the property, split between three closely situated houses, with a main-level corridor that was just overflowing with corn (some for human consumption, others destined to become animal feed).

I took this photo from the main bedroom area, after first arriving. Note the corn pile across in the hallway. The bottom level of the house is the oldest, I'd estimate it to be built in the 1800's or before, and the walls are thick and made of a clay-like material.

I was quickly greeted by all of the strange yet fascinating cultural differences in even the most basic parts of daily lives. From, the way one eats, to washing clothes, everything is done differently. I will attempt to summerize.

  • Utensils are not used, there is a method to scooping the food with your hand. Everyday there was rice with curried vegetables and lentil daal poured on top. Yogurt was also to be added generously.
  • There was internet and satelite television, although you could expect power cuts--usually two per day. I believe this was more common at that specific time of year due to it being monsoon season.
  • There was a well next to the house that supplied drinking water via a rubber tube. The water was also used for washing clothes on the floor of the well (it resembled a sort of water tap), and cold showers.
  • Toilets were on the ground, as is common throughout Asia.
  • Food is largely grown locally, and I was also present for the slaughter of a chicken and a goat. We ate virtually every part of the goat over the course of a week.
  • Village Life

    The village itself was quaint and rural, with buildings, schools and shops limited to the side of the highway. Most homsteads, such as the one I stayed at, had greater space between them. It was either a steep five minute walk down to the highway, or a longer motorcycle trip on incredibly rough terrain that barely passed as a road. Due to its location on the Prithwi Highway, the village was more prosperous than others in Nepal. Later on in my stay, I went with their family to go visit relatives higher up in the hills, and their village lacked most modern amenities. Unfortunately, I do not have picutres from that journey.

    A suspension bridge across the mighty Trishuli River. Although it looks narrow, we shared the bridge with workers carrying sacks on their backs, livestock and motorcycles.

    I communicated with the locals using Nepali, which I had been learning for the past year, with the help of my friend, whom I mentioned earlier, as well as my then-girlfriend who was also Nepalese, as well as the limited resources I found online. My Nepali was limited, however, and very few people in the village spoke English, meaning it was hard to ask questions and learn more about certain things.

    The Economic Situation of Nepal, and the Morning Cuppa Tea

    A highlight of my time in the village was, without a doubt, the mornings spent at the tea house down the highway. I would go with one of the borthers from the house, or sometimes his cousin, and we'd have a cup of tea on this balcony on the side of a cliff overlooking the majestic valley. While there, we met up with all sorts of people, who rode up on their motorcycles (the car is considered a luxury to the Nepalese, so bikes remain king). The tea from the shop was always superb, whether from the fresh tea leaves, or the unpasteurised milk, I do not know. However, I am sure I will not get to taste tea of that quality unless I fly back to Nepal once more.

    The owners of the tea shop (chiya pasal, as it's known in Nepali), made just $100 USD per month, and they competed with several other tea shops within close proximity. Employment is a difficult issue in Nepal. Within the family I stayed with, some of the sons--who were in their 20's--had no work. The rest of the family made money through chicken farming, textiles and banking. I got the feeling that there is not a whole lot of opportunity in the village, in fact one of the older brothers had just gotten back from a year of work in Dubai (a common theme among Nepalese citizens is that many go overseas for temporary labour, I also met a girl who worked in the hospitality sector in Malta.)

    The view from the chiya pasal, the colours have been edited, but the scenery was breathtaking.

    The Legacy of the 2015 Gorkha Earthquake

    Though it had been over four years since the devastating earthquake shook Nepal, the damage from the event was still widespread. The second floor of the main house had half fallen in, and had to be rebuilt using brick. Another secondary house had collapsed altogether and was replaced with a more modern concrete and plaster house, (this was still being built during my stay). Many houses all over Nepal were destroyed in the quake, and in their place lay half finished concrete block-houses.

    Much of Nepal's infrastructure was half or totally destroyed, yet I could not tell if it was a result of the earthquake, or just the country's inability to rebuilt when things fall into disrepair. We drove through the city of Butwal on a trip through Nepal, (that journey in and of itself is a story for another day), but I remember all the streetlights on the main road were toppled over and cars had to swerve around them. It was an uncanny sight, to say the least.

    I stayed in the room of the grey brick house, (the one with the destroyed upper floor), the green and white house is a brand new build.

    And finally, a shot of a Nepalese road. The roads on the plains section of the country are easier to drive on then in the hills, although the plains region of Nepal overall is much poorer in general.

    There are plenty more photos from my trip, although the point of this blog entry is to describe experience rather than show off travel pictures.

    Thank you for reading,

    Akira (Jiaozira)

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    Level 70
    Oct 10, 2020
    I have more to write, so I'm planning a second (likely final) entry which dives into more specific aspects such as how many other foreigners I saw, how frequent internet access is, etc. It will be a bit until that gets put up, since I'm doing loads of writing off JetPunk at the moment. Thank you to everyone who read through this post.
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    Level 70
    Oct 1, 2020
    I hope I was able to describe everything well. Without the use of pictures, I am not sure how I would go about putting everything I saw into words.
    +5
    Level 55
    Oct 1, 2020
    Nice! This blog shows us living in cities and suburbs how lucky we are compared to those living in rural areas.
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    Level 70
    Oct 1, 2020
    Thanks! I always find it interesting to see other walks of live. The main, universal things lacking in these rural areas are, healthcare, opportunity and convenience, but of course some families are quite impoverished and lack more. I got the feeling that many people in Nepal are quite unhappy, but I think a lot of it goes beyond quality of life factors too.
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    Level 70
    May 24, 2021
    I saved up money at my part time job and then I went. I originally was going to go adventuring on my own, but last minute the plan changed and I visited some of my friend's relatives.
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    Level 70
    Jun 3, 2021
    Yes, most of the tourists to Nepal are from China or India. Western tourists were maybe 1/3 of the tourists I encountered. Nepal tried to launch a campaign called 'Visit Nepal 2020' before the whole virus thing, and the campaign was aiming to increase Chinese tourism in particular.
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    Level 68
    Oct 1, 2020
    Brilliant blog. Nepal seems to me like some sort of gem hidden in the Himalayas, with great people and a heritage to match, and I'd love to visit in the future. I'd heard they were investing a lot into tourism this year, with the goal of 2020 being the year international tourism becomes more mainstream. I hope this whole pandemic thing didn't ruin it completely for them
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    Level 70
    Oct 1, 2020
    Thank you! Nepal is an amazing country to visit, I highly recommend it. The people are very helpful and kind, especially in the rural areas. They did indeed run a campaign called Visit Nepal 2020, which was inevitably cancelled. Nepal's economy is going to be hit hard by this pandemic, they couldn't afford to continue applying lockdown measures either.
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    Level 22
    Jun 5, 2021
    Jiaozira i recommend you to visit Vietnam
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    Level 70
    Jul 18, 2021
    Would love to someday! :D
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    Level 57
    Oct 1, 2020
    Great blog - very interesting. Are you planning on going back anytime soon after COVID ends?
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    Level 70
    Oct 1, 2020
    Thank you! I would like to return someday, but I'm not sure when. Besides the whole pandemic, I'm not in a great position to travel for the time being. I don't have any plans for travel outside Canada for the time being.
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    Level 66
    Oct 1, 2020
    Really nice! The most rural I’ve been is probably a resort in the middle of the mountains in Zhejiang.
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    Level 70
    Oct 1, 2020
    Thanks! I often find the rural parts of any given country some of the most compelling places to travel to. Rural China was the closest place I've been to rural Nepal, but there were many differences too.
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    Level 51
    Oct 5, 2020
    For me, It was a village in Muzaffarnagar.
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    Level 56
    Oct 1, 2020
    Fantastic Blog! Nepal is an amazing country, as well as this blog! Several things in this blog were kind of relatable with India, like Car being a luxury. Although compared to the situation of rural India from about a couple of decades ago, several households own a car. But still there are places where car is a luxury. The same goes with Tea shops. They make not so much money, as well as tea being so popular in India, they have a huge competition. But because our Prime Minister used to sell tea at a railway station, they remains positive, thinking "If one tea seller can become Prime Minister, why can't I become more successful?"
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    Level 70
    Oct 1, 2020
    Thank you! I really liked Nepal. I do believe (much of) India is ahead of Nepal in terms of development, as Nepal's economy struggles to grow. I didn't know Modi used to sell tea, that is a new and interesting fact to me. We travelled only a couple kilometres away from the Indian border, and I imagine my experiences there would be similar to a journey through Uttar Pradesh of Bihar. As of yet, the closest I've been to India was my layover in Indira Gandhi International in Delhi (en route to Kathmandu).
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    Level 55
    Oct 2, 2020
    btw how did you upload those pictures? its really neat but I only know how to upload pictures from Wikipedia
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    Level 56
    Oct 2, 2020
    Here, he used Imgur website. You can use Imgur to upload images and can link them here, of anywhere on internet. But a better alternative to Imgur can be imgbb.com , as Imgur requires you an account and mobile verification while imgbb doesn't even require account!
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    Level 66
    Oct 2, 2020
    Hmm, I used imgur a few times and I didn’t need an account. There’s a button that says create post at the top and you can upload an image even if you don’t have an account.
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    Level 57
    Oct 2, 2020
    ImgBB is great and I use it. Since I don't have a phone, I use ImgBB. Also, Imgur is more like social media-ish and it requires you to have an account and mobile verification. Mark me if I'm wrong, but I feel like Imgur might be a bit unsafe to upload personal photos as anyone can stumble across your collections
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    Level 55
    Oct 2, 2020
    thanks!
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    Level 51
    Oct 2, 2020
    This is just like India!
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    Level 70
    Oct 2, 2020
    It is similar, yes :)
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    Level 62
    Oct 2, 2020
    Cool. I haven't been to Nepal yet, but it'll be really easy for me to visit ( we have an open border , so I can walk across) . Also in the last image you can see an Indane carrier( most probably carrying oil) and an Indian truck (from the AIP sign) , carrying goods from Kanpur Road in Lucknow(where I'm from)
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    Level 70
    Oct 2, 2020
    That last picture was taken close to the Indian border. I met a few Indians there, including religious pilgrims to a holy site in Pokhara, as well as some Hindu missionaries who tried to convert me at Lumbini (an odd experience, indeed!) There are reduced prices at tourist prices for Indian nationals, although it remains higher than the local prices by about 100 Nepalese rupees on average. Members of the family I lodged with had been to India too, and a couple had been to Tibet (I'm not sure if they actually went to China or just the Tibetan plateau, but from what I've heard Nepalese passport holders have easier access to Tibet than Westerners).
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    Level 75
    Oct 2, 2020
    This was really fascinating to read. I would be very interested to see a second part (if possible)
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    Level 70
    Oct 2, 2020
    I'm glad you think so! I certainly have more photos, but most importantly I'd have to think of more experiences that are of value.
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    Level 56
    Oct 2, 2020
    Amazing blog! You are so lucky. I hope to visit Nepal someday.
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    Level 70
    Oct 2, 2020
    Thank you! I'm happy my plans worked out. I recommend visiting, should you get the chance.
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    Level 78
    Oct 3, 2020
    Fantastic blog. I enjoyed seeing the picture of the highway and the trucks. I drive trucks in the UK but have also driven all over Europe in the past, so very interested to see other road haulage scenes. Have you made a blog elsewhere about your travels with more pics, I would really enjoy reading about them.
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    Level 70
    Oct 3, 2020
    Thank you for the comment! There are plenty of trucks in Nepal, they have a very distinctive horn. Like in other South Asian countries, they are decorated with bright colours. Many trucks have the American Flag, the Union Jack and/or the Brazilian flag, and most have Nepalese national symbols, "Buddha was born in Nepal." quotes, Mount Everest, along with other sources of national pride. The road condition in the hills are poor, due to low maintenance and falling rocks from the mountainsides. I'm sure it is a much different experience to driving in the UK. At the moment, this is the only real travel experience I've written about online, although I do want to write more. I'll probably stick to writing on the JetPunk blog for the time being.
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    Level 78
    Oct 4, 2020
    Thanks for the reply Jiaozira. If you ever decide to write elsewhere about your travels there is an excellent web forum with trip and journey stories HERE.

    Also thanks for the glimpse into a very different culture, I would love to travel to Asia by road and plan to do so after my retirement in around 8 years time

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    Level 70
    Oct 4, 2020

    You're very welcome @toowise. And thank you for the sending me the web forum, it looks real interesting. I like the idea of travelling by road, in fact I am considering driving across Canada next summer (I hope to travel to other continents later on when travel is normalised). I do want to write about my travels once I'm back on the road, and I will save the website in case I decide to write there.

    I hope your plans go well, Asia is such a fascinating continent full of different cultures. If you have the chance to visit Nepal, the visa is easy to get (although South Asia is somewhat isolated from the rest of the continent via roads).

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    Level 56
    Oct 10, 2020
    Trucks are such a thing which their owners love in South Asia. It explains the fact why they are so decorated. They like to customize their truck with several beautiful and sparkling things, also paying artists to create paintings and writing quotes on them. Most of the trucks here are orangish colored, and almost every truck you will encounter in highway will have something written on it's back in black or white. They like to write several different things, like quotes, poetries, or even something which may help drivers behind them, for example, Use Dipper at Night. Quotes and poetries are mostly in Hindi, at least in India.

    In other words, you can say South Asian Trucks are a piece of Art!

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    Level 70
    Oct 10, 2020
    They are quite beautiful, and I can understand why, seeing as these people spend far more time in their trucks than anywhere else. There were many recurring symbols, which I'd imagine change as per the region, since many of the symbols had to do with Nepal as I mentioned. I was also impressed at how some of these massive trucks were driven on narrow, half washed-out dirt tracks with a hill on one side and a cliff on the other. South Asian truck drivers deserve a standing ovation!
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    Level 71
    Jan 16, 2021
    Very cool article! My parents are from Bangladesh, so I've visited there a few times, including the rural village where my mom grew up. Not surprisingly, there are a lot of cultural similarities. I like how you mention roadside tea shops because in Bangladesh they're literally everywhere. There's a kinda social feel to drinking tea in South Asian cultures--it's not just a thing to drink there, but a way to gather with friends and family and talk about the day. Something else that pops out is how many people work overseas. I think Bangladesh, like India, is slightly more developed than Nepal, but still pretty poor, and so there are tons of migrant laborers from Bangladesh in the Middle East, as well as a growing diaspora in North America (both the US and Canada). As for the lack of utensils thing, that's something that my family and I practice even in America, so I'm pretty used to that. :)
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    Level 71
    Jan 16, 2021
    One of the major differences between the 2 countries is probably the landscape. Bangladesh is incredibly flat, and much of its land is used for agriculture. It's still pretty beautiful in its own way though, with tons of paddy fields, forests, and winding rivers, plus the longest natural beach in the world!

    I'd really love to visit Nepal one day! And if you ever pass by the region again and have time, I'd recommend visiting Bangladesh too!

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    Level 70
    Jan 17, 2021
    I'm glad you liked it! Bangladesh indeed striked me as having many similarities to Nepal. Even the Bengali language shares a lot in common with Nepali. I find the rural villages interesting, as they continue to preserve a way of life which no longer exists in the West (although this is changing fast, at least in Nepal, as more people are online than ever before and money makes its way to the villages from either Kathmandu or overseas). Nepal is held back economically since it has no coast, I'm not sure how it compares to Bangladesh but it does strike me as trailing India in terms of development by around 20 years, but hopefully the future is bright for Nepal and Bangladesh too!
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    Level 70
    Jan 17, 2021
    Bangladesh also seems underrated in terms of beauty. I'm a mountain guy, typically, but I've seen some gorgeous pictures of the Bangladeshi countryside (especially at sunset or sunrise). I'm a huge tea drinker, so it would be great to sample teas from across the region. It may be a while yet, because there are just too many places to visit in the world, but when I make it back to Nepal oneday I'd love to extend the trip to Northeast India and Bangladesh, visa situation permitting :)
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    Level 45
    Jan 20, 2021
    I wish I could write a blog
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    Level 70
    Jan 20, 2021
    You should give it a go. You can always use 'right-click, inspect' to see how I formatted this blog.